Potty Training Twins

I’ll be honest, I have not had the pleasure of potty training twins, but my two youngest are very close in age and potty training overlapped. (After five babies in succession I am so done with diapers! )

Getting them each their own little potty chair is a must. All my kids (4 of which are boys) loved the idea of ownership, and they very easily made the transition to standing up at the big potty. We did this only occassionally at home so that they would go when we went somewhere. The trick with this was dropping a Cheerio in the toilet and telling them to “drown” it. If they had to go #2 they felt more secure if I sat them on the toilet facing the seat. We also did the no-pull-ups method.

They also received a Skittle or M&M only when they went potty. If they went #2 the first couple of times they got ice cream or some other bigger treat. Positive reinforcement always works.

Obviously as much as they want to do things together, they will not always have to go at the same time, but I think it’s easier to train two because if one catches on, and made a bid deal over, the other is sure to follow. Consistency and making it fun is key.

You can do this. You gave birth to twins! This will so be a piece of cake.

I saw your dilemma and had to comment! I have twin boys that are now 3 1/2. Having had no prior p/t’ing experiences with boys (I have two older girls), I thought that having to train two at a time would be much easier than just training one girl. Ha! Let me just say that girls are much easier. My boys are finally fully trained, but it took a lot of bribery to get them there. I still have one in pullups at night and no matter what I try, cannot get him to make it through. It’s very frustrating. I wish I had advice for you, but training twins for me was no different than if they had been born years apart — they did their own thing and only when they wanted to. Good luck!!!

You have so much experience already that you just have to bite the bullet and do it. I only have my 1 set of twins (boy/girl). They did not train at the same time. At first I tried to train them at the same time but neither one was ready and it was a nightmare. Then my daughter just pretty much stopped using diapers overnight. She was a breeze. My son waited longer before he was ready and he had many, many more accidents than she did.

My only advice to you is that you know what you are doing and have lots of experience already.

I’m just here to say I am so glad that I am not training twin boys! I do though have a two and a half year old little girl who is probably ready and I must say I am putting it off for no good reason! Good Luck!

Thanks for asking this because I have enjoyed reading the answers. I don’t have any (answers) myself, but with two little girls, I was encouraged to read that girls tend to be easier than boys. My son was hard!

Rolling over laughing falling down. I am the mother of 5 year old twins. I know what you are going through. I hate potty training time. But it does make for some VERY memorable moments! Good luck!

I had a hard enough time training my one boy. He had a terrible time going #2 on the toilet (don’t ask me!?!?) Best of luck. I am sure it will be a load of fun and laughs

My best friend tried and tried to potty train her twin boys, and finally, the only thing that worked was to do it separately, one at a time. I have another friend with twins that trained hers separately too. If they insist on doing everything together, they may provide each other with incentive, but if not, it may help to look at both individually and see who’s really ready. Hope that helps!

I just finished potty training my third child, and while she isn’t twins, she was definitely my most challenging. My other two didn’t need the potty seat, but did like having the little padded insert seat that you set on the regular toilet. So I was going with that this time. But this kid is different. She wasn’t getting the potty training thing at all. I chalked it up to moving and other changes, but we were down to the wire and it needed to happen. For her, it took a potty seat. She saw the girl on the pullups package had a purple potty and she said if she had one like that, she would be fine. And you know what? She was. We bought a $14 potty and she is potty trained. I hate emptying it and cleaning it, but the trade off is worth it. So I guess my advice is to just remember that these kids might not do it like your others did and that listening to them might be the key.